Mais oui!

My darling son and daughter-in-law gave me tickets to a concert in Perpignan for Christmas. Perpignan is about an hour and a half from me across the border in France. The concert was by an English singer named Charlie Winston who lives in southern France. I’d never heard of him, and it probably wasn’t anything I would have chosen myself. But, I gotta say, it was really fun. I talked my new American friend into accompanying me. She and I arrived at the AirBnb, which was a part of the gift. The owner did not speak English, so it was a great test of my French to arrange meeting at the location.

The concert was in a small venue. It was standing only, no seats. At the risk of sounding like I’m 100 years old, is that what the young folks do now? Anyway, once we got into the swing of things, the music carried us away, and a seat would’ve seemed superfluous. Charlie spoke in French throughout the concert. He was adorable and I was excited to understand some of his discourses in between songs. At one point, I became completely emotionally overwhelmed. It happens from time to time when I am struck by how lucky I am and what joy it brings me to be here living in another culture and communicating in other languages. I had one of those moments during the concert.


If you’re interested, this is a song of his I really like:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WOgQBdSWB84

One of the British ex-pats I’ve met invited me to an event in her town called an Arrossada, which involves cooking a humongous paella pan of rice and other things over an open fire. There were two such huge pans to serve about 100 people. The price tag was 12 euros for a plate (and a second helping for those not full after a heaping plate of meat and rice), a roll, a giant sausage, a piece of cake, and a bottle each of wine, water, and champagne per table. What fun!

I made an American cheeseburger for my neighbor recently and I wanted to put pickle slices on it, but, there were no dills at any of the stores. I looked in the gourmet section at Corte Inglés, but they didn’t have any either. I bought some that were labelled “sour,” but they didn’t taste quite right. I decided to look at the Taste of America’s online store. Look at this weird stuff. It’s kernels (??) of pickles to put on pop corn? Does that seem right to any one?

The wind picked up here. It was blowing at around 30 mph, which isn’t that bad, except when it’s coming off of the sea and cold and CONSTANT. It does not stop for days on end. I guess that’s just the price we pay to live in this gorgeous place. I haven’t been able to take my recycling out all week because the bin would have blown away. But the wind brings crisp, clear skies and views of the mountains. This one is at sunrise so the snow caps look pink! It’s a little blurry because I zoomed in a bit, but you get the idea.

Spain, everything under the sun

That was a slogan for Spanish tourism in the 80’s, together with the Miró sun. The slogan from the 1960’s was Spain is different. It surely is.

I bought a car last year and I realized when I returned that it needed to be inspected. Just about that time, a warning light came on in French. Because the car is French, a helpful repairman put the car’s language to French. The light said “defaut de la system electrique” which isn’t hard to understand – defect in the electrical system. It took me a while to find the right repair shop to address the problem, get an appointment, have it fixed. In the meantime, I couldn’t get it inspected. You know that feeling when you see a cop and you’re praying under your breath that they don’t stop you?

Once the problem was corrected, I went to have the car inspected. You have to go to an official outlet of the ITV –  Inspecciòn Técnica de Vehículos. I was a little nervous because I’d never done it before and I didn’t know the process. I found out that they take the inspections VERY seriously. It was a big establishment (not a Jiffy Lube kind of place) with several lanes of cars and trucks being inspected. I was required to stay in my vehicle while they took photos of my car and me in my car. Then a man who spoke like he had rocks in his mouth started barking orders at me of things to do. In the States, I would basically hand my car over to someone, and five minutes later they would say I was ready to go. In the Spanish scenario, they wanted me to turn on the windshield wipers, use each of the turn indicators, apply the parking brake, etc. The problem was I didn’t know those words in Spanish. There had never been a reason to learn car vocabulary. It was embarrassing and humbling, and in the end, my car did not pass the inspection!! Apparently, the car had previously been outfitted for a handicapped driver. The car was later retrofitted back to its original state, but the car’s paperwork that I had been given when I bought the car did not show that the work had taken place. Buff! as they say in Spanish. Needless to say, I’m still trying to obtain the proper documentation so I can get the car inspected and drive fearlessly again!

I don’t receive mail at my apartment because I’m outside the city in an area where there are very few full-time residents. I rent a post office box at the Post Office in town, but I had not done so yet, and there were some envelopes waiting for me in the general delivery. There were two from the State of Catalunya. I drove home with them unopened because I was terrified and certain that they were fines for driving too fast because there are radar and cameras on the highways. I finally opened them and one was a letter and the other a follow-up asking me to go online and take a survey. It said I had been chosen randomly. I can’t imagine such a survey in the US! It asked about my politics and religion and other personal questions. There were a number of scenarios where I was supposed to choose between two sets of adults who were seeking to adopt a child. Based on brief descriptions of the couples, I was asked to choose to whom I would give the child. Most of the couples were same sex, with varying degrees of education and commitment. Many were in “open relationships.” Wow. There were lots of questions about my feelings about gays and transgenders. It was very interesting.

A café opened in my grocery store and it advertised bagels. There was one that looked like an everything bagel, which is my favorite. I went to buy one to take home where I planned to toast it and put cream cheese and chives on top. I was told that I could not buy just a bagel. I could only buy one of the filled bagels, like sandwiches. I chose the one that I thought had the least amount of stuff on it in case I wanted to strip it off and start over at home. I ordered the nordic one – it had cream cheese, salmon slices, and PICKLES! It took the guy about 15 minutes to make. I think the bagel must have been frozen. He sliced it open and put it on the grill with OLIVE OIL! Then he slathered a shitload of cream cheese and salmon on it. The pickles were quite a surprise. Not Zabar’s in NYC!

I doubt any of you have cards, letters, or packages you want to mail to me, but if you should…I now have a PO Box.

Susan White
Carrer Sa Nau Perduda 28, #7
Apartado de Correos #19
Begur, Girona
17255
España

Hitchikers, a motorcycle, and a legend

It’s been a crazy couple of weeks.

Pedestrians here have the right-of-way in crosswalks, so when I approached a crosswalk in my car and two young women were standing at the edge of the street, I slowed down to see if they were crossing. Instead, one of the women waved me down. It happens fairly often that tourists in the area ask for directions, so I pulled over and rolled down my window. One of the women asked me if I was going in the direction of Pals. Because I am so bad at directions, I told her I didn’t know. I was going in the direction of L’Escala to play Scrabble with some of the Expat ladies. She informed me that I would pass right by where they needed to go (about 15 minutes away). They were trying to meet up with friends because their car had broken down. I felt like I was being taken advantage of, because I’m nice, and possibly marked as a robbery victim or worse. The women looked VERY MUCH like the pair of hookers on Season 2 of White Lotus (photo below). The whole time we were driving, one of the women was chatting me up, I was certain this was so that I would let my guard down and would not expect it when she strangled me from the back seat. We arrived at their destination, they exited, I lived.

characters mia and lucia on 'the white lotus'

Last May when I saw an ad about Joan Manuel Serrat’s farewell tour and final concerts in Barcelona in December, I quickly went online to buy tickets. I bought the last two out of three available. They were seats with obstructed view and were not next to each other. A friend agreed to accompany me at the last minute. The only catch (in my mind) was that he would pick me up on his moto. I haven’t been on a motorcycle since 1976!

The concert was great. The stadium was full of fans eager to re-live their memories with Serrat’s music. He was touched. We were thrilled. I only cried once when he sang “Cantares,” one of his classics. The verses are lines of poetry by the well known Spanish poet Antonio Machado. I would try to translate it, but it would sound awkward in English compared to the beauty of it in Spanish.

The ad for Serrat’s last tour, El Vicio de Cantar (The Vice of Singing)…

This was the third of my three times ever riding a motorcycle. I closed my eyes and tried not to scream while I hung on tight for dear life!

A friend who saw this photo said I looked like the mushroom emoji! It’s true!

I spent Christmas and New Year’s with my friend in Rogny-Les-Sept-Ecluses, France, as I did last year. It was a low-key week full of holiday cheer, cooking, and watching movies, after some question as to whether the trip would be possible at all. The French rail workers went on strike, and my train scheduled for Christmas Eve was cancelled. Fearful that the return trip would also fall prey to the strike, I cancelled it and made a roundtrip plane reservation. The first leg of the trip was automatically refunded, but because the return trip was never cancelled by the French rail line, SNCF, my non-refundable ticket was not considered refundable. After various phone calls to SNCF with no resolution, I decided that my best chance of getting my 100€ back would be to visit an SNCF office and talk directly to an agent. With several hours to spare at the airport before my return flight to Barcelona, I went on a wild goose chase to two different SNCF offices at the airport. I even successfully explained the situation in French once, but to no avail. Yet! The comic moment came when I asked the information gentleman at the airport if there was a SNCF office nearby, and he said “you’re at the airport!, Madame!” No shit, Sherlock.

On New Year’s Eve, we opened the front and back doors at midnight to let the old year out and the new one in! Hope it worked! Maybe not…I have COVID AGAIN! I feel fine, it’s just a hassle at this point, so I’m lucky.

Here’s wishing everyone a happy and healthy new year!

Six of one/half dozen of another…

My last post got me to thinking…what is better here and what do I miss from the States?

My off-hand comment has always been that I only miss certain friends and family and Mexican food. But what are the pro’s for each side?

  • I do like the mild winters of the Texas Gulf Coast (except I know you all are currently frozen solid!)
  • And I think the Gulf Coast has the best crab and shrimp in the world!
  • I miss Tex-Mex enchiladas, chile con queso, good guacamole!
  • And a Texas chopped beef BBQ sandwich is pretty damned good too
  • Knowing how to do things! This can’t be overestimated – where to go to buy things, who to call to fix things, the list goes ON!
  • Certain products are difficult or impossible to find: pickle relish, celery salt, sour cream, peppermints
  • I’d like to have a coffee maker that I understand. I finally learned to operate it without destroying the pods, but now even after I put in TWO pods and push the button for the big cup, I still only get a half a cup of coffee. See below.
  • Lack of fear – I am constantly worried when I pass the police, or I have to explain some complicated issue in Spanish to a clerk, especially one in a position of authority. I’ll write another post about my experience getting the car inspected! That was humbling.
  • Clothes dryer, clothes dryer, clothes dryer!!!

So what’s so great about Spain? I always say I love everything about it — the people, the food, the music, the scenery, but it’s really about their love of life. They slow down, enjoy, take it in…

  • They have so many holidays, which can be annoying when you’re trying to get something done, but here it’s an excuse to eat, drink, and be merry with friends and family
  • The food is so fresh and you don’t have to go to a farmer’s market on a Saturday morning or spend a ton of money on things at Whole Foods — it’s everywhere
  • Tapas, wine, anchovies, seafood, paella…this list goes ON…
  • Although there are beautiful places in the US, the greater Houston area, including Galveston, is not one of them; here I have picturesque villages, snow-covered mountains, and the blue, blue sea
  • I also can’t underestimate the importance to me of living in another language every day. it is a challenge and yet even in failure there is a sense of satisfaction
  • I love the music! Although you can find Spanish radio stations in the States, I think it would be hard to find a station that plays Spanish, French, Italian, and music in other languages all in one car ride!
  • Being part of a culture with a world view, not just an egocentric one
  • The history and the culture, the art and the architecture – roman artifacts, castles, Dali, Picasso, Gaudí!
  • Being among a group of people, the Catalan independistas, who self-identify as rebels of a sort; it’s catching! And speaking Catalan, or trying to, feels like I’m part of a secret society that has its own secret language – it’s so unknown in the world outside of Catalunya.
  • The quality of life is very, very good!

I’m sure I’ve forgotten some things on both sides. I’ll append if warranted.

In the meantime, Merry Christmas! Feliz Navidad! Bon Nadal, Joyeux Noël!!!

The Best of Both Worlds

I’m once again at my other home. I feel at home in both places – Houston/Galveston, USA and Begur, Spain. I even feel pretty much at home in Rogny-les-Sept-Écluses, France. The dogs seem to adapt pretty well too. There are definitely good points to living in the US and good points to living in Europe (maybe a future blog post). I’m very lucky to have the best of both worlds!!

It’s hard leaving the new kiddos, my one year-old grandson and my no year-old grandson. I certainly won’t be nominated for grandmother of the year. It’s too bad I can’t be in two places at once!

Going to Spain has never been about escaping from the US, although that was a bonus feature over these past few years. It’s more about trying to be the other me or more me. I may have said before that I think I was born in the wrong place or maybe I lived here in another lifetime (if there is such a thing), but there is definitely a feeling of home when I arrive. I cried coming through the Pyrenees. I love first spotting the giant snow-covered peaks.

The trip this time was pretty smooth, save for one semi-terrifying moment when my bad dog, Cassie, ate a couple of handfuls of melatonin gummies out of my suitcase the day before my flight! She vomited 5 times and started trembling, then later becoming somewhat lethargic. Besides worrying about her health, I was worried I might have to change my flight. But she rallied. Apparently she has a strong stomach like her mother!

During the fall in Galveston I learned that two of the four photos I submitted for the expat group’s calendar photo competition were chosen for the 2023 calendar. There were dozens, if not more, submissions, so I was pretty proud to have been recognized twice by the impartial judges. I’m no great photographer, so I guess I just got lucky. Now I’m super motivated to enter next year!!

Here are my photos which were chosen for February and November 2023.

Plus, here are my boys, Gordie and Goose.

Bonus photo. Note how they spell ketchup in Catalan.

And here’s to more (good) adventures!

Au revoir encore!

Goodbye again!

I hate this. But going to France for a month is a nice way to transition from one home to the other. I don’t feel quite as sad to leave Spain because I get to visit my friends in the village of Rogny-les-Sept-Ecluses, France, on the way to the States.

This time I was in Rogny for the fireworks extravaganza, its 54th annual celebration. It doesn’t seem to be rooted in any religious or historical event, but just because. On the day of the fireworks, the town of 700 people swells by thousands of visitors. The city is closed off at noon, and no cars are allowed to enter. Those visitors who arrive after noon have to park on the outskirts of town and walk into the village, where there are chairs and temporary bleachers constructed for seating, as well as grassy areas for blankets.

Even though I’m not keen on fireworks (too loud), I’ve seen many fireworks presentations, and I must say, this small town puts on a spectacular show. Below, you can see (on the left) the locks in the canal (for which the city is named, but which have not been in use since 1887, when the new locks were constructed), where the fireworks are assembled for discharge. I’ve included some photos of the fireworks (disclaimer: photos of this year’s program are from the internet; my photos didn’t come out well), but they accurately depict the show.

Randomly, as there have been supply chain disruptions and product shortages world-wide, in France this summer, Dijon mustard (or, as they call it in France, “mustard”) is in short supply. A series of overlapping issues led to the mustard crisis, including bad weather.  Burgundy, where Dijon is located, experienced a wet winter, and some mustard producers harvested less than half of what they had expected to harvest. Then Canada, the second-largest mustard-seed producer in the world, had its exports cut in half, partially due to the the North American heatwave that occurred last year. This is serious!

OMG. News and rumors travel so fast in this small town!! Do you remember the game “Telephone”? We played it as kids. You sit in a circle and one person whispers “a secret” to the next person; that person whispers it to the person next to them; and so on, until the message has made its way around the circle. The last person says the message out loud and laughter ensues, because the message has changed so much since the first person uttered it. Well, that’s sort of what it’s like to live in Rogny. One villager remarked that you can’t fart in the town without everyone knowing! He called it a “blah, blah, blah town.”

A new development occurred when my friend arrived from the US to help me fly back with the dogs. We had planned to spend a relaxing week in Rogny, enjoying cookouts and time with friends and neighbors. But, my friend, who recently had COVID, and had two negative COVID tests prior to arrival, had a rebound case of COVID like President Biden recently experienced. Everyone in town knew my friend’s positive status within MINUTES!! Long story short, we left Rogny, and are unexpectedly spending a week in Paris prior to departure. I was sorry to have had to leave so abruptly, but this Paris visit has been a real lagniappe — no rush to see sights, just enjoying the food and culture for a bit. Walking the dogs by the Seine every day has been particularly pleasant.

I’m leaving in a few days for the US, and I will probably take a hiatus on the blog posts. But, fyi, apparently, I have 119 followers from 25 countries! Isn’t that insane? Of course, I’m very suspicious of the followers from China. Really? No bad motives? Hopefully, the others from non-communist countries are fellow travellers who are just interested in Spain…and not getting into my bank account.

See ya…

Three steps forward…

Reflecting on my stay in Spain this time, I feel like I took three steps forward and maybe a couple back. But all in all, my last sojourn, which ended three weeks ago, was productive. I took steps towards my goal of settling in and feeling a part of the community. It’s not exactly what I’d hoped for by this point; but the pandemic was definitely a step backwards, and being a foreigner, and of a certain age, making new friends isn’t so easy.

What I would like, my dream, is to have Catalan friends and Spanish friends and participate in local activities together. That hasn’t happened for me…yet, at least, in the way that I’d hoped. But in the meantime, I joined the U3A, which I learned, is not just for Brits or even just people from the United Kingdom. I met Norwegians, Icelanders, Belgians, French, German, Dutch. There’s quite an international community on the Costa Brava, with English being the common language. I’d prefer to use Spanish or try my Catalán, but instead I learned British expressions like “it’s better than a slap in the face with a wet kipper!”

I am proud, however, of what I accomplished this time. I joined a twice-a-week yoga class, and I joined the U3A where I met a couple dozen or so folks doing the 6-10 km walks along the coast in beautiful places I never knew existed. I learned to play petanca, and in that regard I had to find my way around Palafrugell, the town of 23,000, which is next door. This was a feat because I am so directionally challenged. I played Scrabble with a French Canadian, a Brit, and a Scottish woman, and I participated in Local Interest Group outings, including one to a boutique ecological olive oil enterprise. I’m lobbying for a trip to the anchovy factory next year! I LOVE anchovies. I bought a car (wrecked the car, fixed the car), and I started work to renew my residency visa.

I guess I was learning more every day and that’s the point. I just wish it were more and faster. I feel like time is running out and I have to hurry, but at the same time, I want to relax and enjoy it. I’m not sure how to DO BOTH at the same time!

I’m now in my French phase, in Rogny-les-Septs-Ecluses. It’s nice to be back in this quaint village where everyone is so welcoming. I also spent a week in Switzerland, which was, as you would expect, gorgeous. We stayed in a small medieval village of 300 people just a short drive from Italy. I thought they would speak Italian there, but no, they spoke German! We couldn’t understand any of the signs, menus, etc. It’s just a couple of weeks until I’m back to the States for a while. I’m taking in every moment. I’m so lucky.

And a crazy thing happened (senility? stupidity?). Susan and I purchased identical Frida Kahlo tee shirts two years ago. Today, we both wore them, not on purpose. Over the course of a couple of hours, we took a walk and had coffee at a café . Only when a neighbor greeted us and asked about our “twin” tee shirts did we realize we were wearing the same shirt! Yep, idiots.

Probably just one more post before I leave…

So many holidays!

I swear there’s another “Puente” every other week. Puente literally means bridge in Spanish, but that’s the word they use for a three-day weekend. This time it was for St. John’s day, el día de Sant Joan here in Catalunya. Boy was I surprised the first time I saw this holiday celebration. It takes fireworks to a whole new level, and I don’t mean in the way of a professional fireworks show. I mean families, including small children, jumping over burning logs! The celebrations take place on the eve of Saint John’s Day, known as the Nit de Sant Joan or la Revetlla de Sant Joan in honor of St. John the Baptist’s birthday and also the summer solstice.  Fire features in many of the celebrations, with people gathering together and creating large bonfires from any kind of wood, such as old furniture, and sharing food and drinks while teens and children jump over the fires.The bonfires are lit to protect against evil spirits which were believed to roam freely when the sun was turning southward again.

Each municipality will usually put on their own fiesta including not just fireworks and bonfires, but other performances. Traditionally, they also partake of a special cake known as coca de Sant Joan, a large, flat pastry which is very sweet and is typically made of candied fruits, marzipan or cream.

If you have the patience, I’ve added some videos I shot from Sant Joan day in Arties, Spain in 2019, the first time I’d ever heard of it.

https://vimeo.com/726258921

https://vimeo.com/726261495

https://vimeo.com/726297916

https://vimeo.com/726298122

https://vimeo.com/726264121

One day I’d like to experience Sant Joan in Menorca where live horses play a role. Like the burning logs, this looks super dangerous too.

This Día de Sant Joan, as often happens, I was not clued in on what was happening when or where. I thought that there was going to be a celebration at a beach nearby similar to the one I experienced in Arties, but the festivities were a bit of a dud — no bonfire and a long walk home. Later, after most people were asleep, the fireworks in the neighborhood began. They were sooo loud! Cam slept on my head. Poor thing, he was terrified.

I did get one surprise that night, however — COVID!

I believe I was exposed to it four days earlier at my yoga class. The man on the mat next to mine, who is a regular, looked awful. I asked him if he was ok and he said that he wasn’t feeling well, but that he’d tested negative. Well…I don’t know about that…

My case was light. I had a sore throat, headache and fever for a couple of days, and after that nothing. Except, I kept testing positive on home tests, and on an antigen test and a PCR test I took at a clinic. I wanted OUT of quarantine!! I should feel lucky that I was not sicker and did not suffer as much as many people have, but I was terribly disappointed not to be able to enjoy my last week in Begur to the fullest, seeing friends and visiting favorite spots before leaving for France and the USA.

Since I’ve continued to test positive, now it is day 9, I can’t stay with my friend in France, so I’m staying in a trailer (it’s actually pretty nice) at a campground in the village. Just my speed, right? Eff’ing COVID!! I feel like a leper. And I’m really tired of pushing a stick up my nose!

Baby, you can drive my car!

BEFORE

Post-pandemic, as many of you know, cars available for rental are hard to find! And expensive! So I made the decision to buy a used car. They also are not in abundance currently, at least ones with automatic transmissions. Although I’ve driven manual cars before, I never owned one, so I’ve never become accustomed to it to the point that it’s second nature. The thought of taking on that task now (at my age!) might be a challenge I would take. I can’t turn down a good challenge. But there are a lot of hills here. Just recently I was behind a truck and a car and we were stopped at a stop sign at the top of a hill. The truck was having trouble and started slipping backwards. Finally the driver got it under control and drove off, but then the car in front of me began moving back towards me and came very very close to hitting me. I don’t want to be that person! I have nightmares of very angry people yelling at me in Spanish and waving their arms. No thanks.

I finally found a car with automatic transmission and not too many kilometers for not too much money. I felt so proud to have my car. I bought a car, I got Spanish car insurance, it all made me feel permanent! Then [cue scary music]…I had a little accident.

Just a few days after I got the car, I went to a celebration of the Queen’s Jubilee hosted by some of the British expats. It felt very strange to be there as an American. They sang “God Save our Queen” and toasted her with champagne. It would have been a lovely evening if it hadn’t included me hitting a small (invisible) concrete box-like thing on the side of the road leading to the parking area. I was trying to avoid the tree on one side and the drop-off on the other while navigating a hair-pin turn. And this was prior to any alcohol. What’s done is done, but such a bummer. We had three days!

AFTER

Even though I really know next to nothing about cars, I am somewhat fascinated by them. Whenever I see a really unique one, I snap a photo. Some of these tiny cars look like they’re built out of Legos!

Then, there are the weird names of some cars here: Renault Trafic (with one “f”), Mercedes Marco Polo, Citroen Jumpy, Renault Scenic, Peugeot Tepee, Peugeot Bipper, Citroen Space Tourer.

This Monday was a holiday…another one…called “second Easter”. WHA? It’s the Pentecost. It is always celebrated on the fifth Sunday after the “first” Easter. According to Christian dogma, the holiday celebrates the appearance of the Holy Spirit to Christ’s disciples: the Bible says that fifty days after Jesus rose from the grave, the Holy Spirit appeared to his most trusted advisors in the form of tongues of flame, and directed them to evangelize, spreading the Christian gospel across the globe.  This is from an online source, Metropolitan Barcelona (https://www.barcelona-metropolitan.com/features/culture/segunda-pascua-the-second-easter/). It’s main popularity, I think, is that it is a long weekend just at the beginning of the summer season.

A EUROVISION SUMMER!

Actually, it’s not officially summer yet. I’ve been here for the change in seasons three times now, and it always seems to happen the same way. One day I’m wearing three layers, including a jacket, and the next day I’m in shorts.

With the change of temperature, of course, come the hordes of people from the city looking for fun, water activities, dining out, hiking, relaxation. This also means an entirely different look to the town. All the stores and restaurants are open and there’s a holiday air about the place. In the town, the dress code goes from “regular” clothes to resort wear – not so much for the men, but the female tourists are all in flowing patterned dresses, high wedge sandals, lots of linen, and lots of jewellery. I really like it better the other way.

Coinciding with the change of seasons was the annual television presentation of the Eurovision song contest. I’d heard of Eurovision since I first spent time here in the 70s, but this year I watched the show in its entirety, until 1:30 in the morning. And they say the Oscars are long.

This was Eurovision’s 66th year. The premise is that each participating country selects a song written and performed by a singer or group from its own country as its entry. Some of the most famous winners of Eurovision are “Volare” (Italy 1958) and “Waterloo” by Abba (Sweden 1974).

Spain has won the contest twice. Once was in 1968, when its chosen entry was “La, La, La” by Joan Manuel Serrat. But Serrat asked to sing it in his native Catalan, and the Spanish authorities would not agree. This was during Franco’s reign when the use of Catalan was forbidden to be used in public settings. Defiantly, Serrat refused to sing the Spanish-language version, and was hurriedly replaced by Massiel, who went on to win the contest with her Spanish-language interpretation.

Serrat is a national treasure in Spain and in Catalunya. His signature song “Mediterráneo” was selected as the most important song of the 20th century in Spain. In 1974, during a visit to Mexico, an arrest warrant was issued for Serrat in Spain after he criticised the death penalty and the “established and official violence” of the Dictatorship of General Franco. Serrat lived in exile for the remainder of the dictatorship, returning after the death of Franco in 1975. This year is his final tour and I have a ticket!!!

When I was talking with my neighbor about Eurovision, he mentioned casually that he had been a part of Spain’s entry (as one of the writers) in 2008 in Belgrade. What a story. He and some colleagues working at a Spanish TV station came up with the idea of writing the worst song ever. The intent was never that the song would be entered into Eurovision, but it was performed on the station’s late night show and became an instant hit. The Spanish people “wrote it in” to be the Eurovision entry for Spain that year. It lost, of course (watch the video here and you’ll see why), but that year’s Eurovision program had the highest viewership in Spain of any program ever up to that time, including the World Cup. The song was a farce and a parody, but all of Spain was in on the joke. Everyone in Spain remembers “Baila el Chiki Chiki.” Ridiculous and hilarious. https://youtu.be/wfeCIvOxXBo.

And this year, Spain came in third and everyone was pretty excited. There was some controversy over the song entered, as many in the country felt it did not deserve to be the nation’s entry, but in the end all of Spain was backing Chanel and her “SloMo.” https://youtu.be/4mYBiIO0pfY

The UK’s entry came in second, and Ukraine won the competition, in a sympathy vote. People living in the participating countries vote for their favorite song, but aren’t allowed to vote for the song from their own country. These votes are combined with the votes from a jury of five music industry professionals in each of the participating countries. I voted for Estonia. They came in 13th.

I was planning to post this a few days ago, but it didn’t feel right, and it really still doesn’t, being light-hearted after so many innocent children were killed at their school in Uvalde, Texas. I’ve tried to remain non-political in my posts (mainly), but I believe this issue transcends politics. Something must be done to control the totally inordinate number of killings and suicide by guns in the US. This does not happen in other countries. It’s horrific and shameful, and so, so frightening for parents. Living in Europe, highlights the contrast in the US gun culture versus cultures here. My friends and acquaintances who live here are appalled and incredulous. There has only ever been one school shooting in Spain. I would say that I hope it would change in the US, but at this point, I’ve lost hope for that happening…

A beautiful beach I found on a walk with the expats. It’s very near here, but I had no idea.